Guidance counselor Cindy Wolfe has many resources that can be accessed at all times to help prevent as well as bring awareness to the different levels of bullying.  When asked if she thinks that bullying is an issue at Alder, Wolfe responded, “Well, some people think that bullying has to be a repetitive act towards another specific individual. However, I think some people who bully are not administering the behavior to the same person each time. They may pick on multiple people on different days and possibly in different ways.”

     Wolfe continued, “At JA, I see many students who do or say things about or to other students in intentionally derogatory ways. The key word is intentionally. Things happen accidentally (of which most apologize), but when someone intentionally tries to hurt or belittle someone else or tries to empower themselves over another, they are a bully. I feel this happens at JA more than we would all want to admit. Unfortunately, some of our most admired students are guilty of doing this at times. As humans, typically, we want to be part of a group and fit in. When this isn’t achieved, we may behave in ways that are not ideal. This is why JA tries to stress the Ideal Characteristics from kindergarten on up.”

     “Each and every human being has a responsibility to be the best they can be for the greater good, always striving to be better. We show this in technology, medicine, and education- why are we still having a problem with showing this in compassion, empathy, tolerance, and diversity? Bullying affects all of us and diminishes our relationships with each other, no matter how we are involved; as a bully, victim of bullying, or a bystander,” concluded Wolfe.

     Students who see or experience bullying are encouraged to report it to an adult.  Anyone who doesn’t feel comfortable sharing with an adult can contact the Safe School Helpline.

The Safe School Helpline

Confidential and 24/7

800-4-1-VOICE ext. 359

www.safeschoolhelpline.com

Text: 66746, TIPS